6-28-10, Chapter 26, Isaac and Abimelech 06/27/2010
I’d like to begin this week’s comments by apologizing. As I look over the entries I made last week, my tone reveals an edge of disapproval on how scripture is written concerning Abraham’s wife/concubine, Keturah. Rewriting my comment, I’d like to say that in my human finite mind I didn’t see anything wrong with Abraham remarrying Keturah following Sarah’s death. Many men have remarried after the death of their life partner. Often it’s because of loneliness and the need for companionship, but it’s not outside the guidelines given by God in scripture. Scripture seems to reveal in different places the words “wife” and “concubine” when speaking of Keturah. A wife has privileges and respect, but a concubine has been defined as “a woman who is the lover of a wealthy married man but with the social status of a subordinate form of wife, often kept in a separate home”. Another definition is “a woman who lives with a man and has a sexual relationship with him but is not married to him”. Makes a difference if Keturah is a wife or a concubine, don’t you think? In order to find out if this issue was a question for others, I looked it up on the internet. Lots of interesting facts, but I have posted what I discovered. If you want to read more just google “Keturah, Abraham” and the detailed information pops up. “Why was Keturah called Abraham’s wife in one passage, and his concubine in another?” Are these two sections of Scripture really contradictory, as Bible critics would have us believe? First, for Genesis 25:1 and 1 Chronicles 1:32-33 to be a contradiction, one must know whether or not these passages are referring to the same time. It is possible that Keturah was Abraham’s “concubine” in the beginning, and then became his “wife” at a later time. If such were the case, Bible writers could legitimately use both terms when describing her. Second, although it was unusual for the terms “wives” and “concubines” to be used interchangeably during the monarchic period, evidence indicates that in patriarchal times, using these terms to refer to the same person was somewhat normal. Keturah was a concubine-wife. Its seems that she was more than a concubine (often considered a second-rate wife of servant status), but not on a par with Sarah, Abraham’s first “wife,” and mother of the promised son (Genesis 17:15-22). Just as Bilhah, Jacob’s concubine-wife, did not rival Rachel or Leah, Keturah was not equivalent with Sarah. Thus, Bible writers were not mistaken when referring to Keturah and Bilhah as both wives and concubines; they simply used two words to indicate the “in-between” position the women held. Proceeding to the comments posted by my husband, I thank him for taking the time to write his thoughts. I would like to comment on one of Gary’s questions. Regarding Rebekah being a believer, I’ve been taught over the years the answer to that question can only be answered by God. People in Biblical times as in today’s society appear to know the Lord, live by all the “rules” and have the actions to prove it and then do something that is totally off the rails of what defines Christianity. Maybe it’s a weak moment; maybe they truly never prayed the sinner’s prayer and meant it, who knows? But one thing we heard last week in Sunday School explained if you are a believer, God has saved you and that can’t be reversed. However, if you continue live outside His will and become a stumbling block to others, God will not allow you to continue in that path. Now onto Chapter 26 and this week’s assignment! First of all, read the beginning of Chapter 12 concerning a famine in the land. As a result of the famine, Abraham went “down” to Egypt. Abraham explains to the Egyptians that Sarah is his sister because he fears they will kill him and take Sarah if she is revealed as his wife. Now, begin Chapter 26. There is a famine in the land and God warns Isaac, “Do not go down to Egypt”! God forewarns Isaac, so Isaac stays put in Gerar. However, when confronted with the men of that area about Rebekah, Isaac claims she is his sister! Can you believe it? Didn’t this story get passed down from Isaac’s father? Remember, in order to keep the experiences of days gone by recorded, they had to share orally. Wouldn’t you pass this important information on to your son? Especially, when you had made the mistake twice?? Fortunately, Abimelech caught Isaac caressing Rebekah and confronted him, “She’s your wife, isn’t she, Isaac? Why did you lie?” So the lie was set straight and while Isaac lived in the land, he prospered incredibly. This area of Gerar was located south of Gaza and was in Philistine. Abimelech was King of the Philistines at the time and the Philistines became angry watching the prosperity of Isaac and company. They began stopping up the wells being used by Isaac’s herdsmen to provide water for the animals. Abimelech asked Isaac to leave the area in order to keep the peace and Isaac did move to the valley of Gerar. After digging a well and finding an abundance of water supply, the herdsmen of Gerar and Isaac’s herdsmen began fighting over ownership again. Isaac left that well, but named it Esek, meaning contention, and built another well. The same occurrence happens with this well as arguing ensues over ownership so Isaac leaves again, but names this well Sitnah, meaning enmity. Eventually, Isaac built the third well and was left alone. This well he named Rehoboth, meaning broad places or room. God comes to Isaac and reminds him of the covenant promise given to his father, Abraham, and Isaac builds an altar, pitches his tent and digs another well. Interestingly, my commentary uses these three actions to remind us to worship the Lord (building the altar), to abide in the Lord’s promises (pitching the tents) and to refresh our spiritual life with His Word (digging the well). A great note to remember. All are action verbs and cause us to work; building, pitching and digging! It is also a good reminder to understand that Isaac now has separated himself from the Philistines. It’s at this point Abimelech and company come to Isaac and ask for a sworn agreement of peace between their people. The Philistines recognize the powerful hand of God on Isaac and don’t want that favor to turn against them. The agreement is made and signed and the Philistines go on their way. The last few verses give insight into Esau’s life. At the age of 40 this man finally marries not one, but two women! They are women of the pagan Hittite clan. But look at the very last line, “They were a source of grief to Isaac and Rebekah.” As noted pagans, these women were unequally yoked to Esau. My commentary writes this is further implication that Esau was unfit to be the owner of the birthright. I understand that statement; however, during their earlier years as children weren’t these boys taught similarly when it came to instruction in the ways of God? Was Esau always the one that was in defiance? Were these unions intentional to bring sorrow to his parents? Oh, that we could learn whatever we do in life is our burden to carry, our consequence to face. Father, thank you for this lesson from Chapter 26 of Genesis. Lord, you continually teach us that blessings continue to flow as we follow and obey your direction. As numerous wells burst forth with an abundant water supply for Isaac, so our spiritual thirst will be richly supplied. Help us to recognize that many will despise us and try to rob us of joy as your blessings are revealed, but enable us to do as Isaac demonstrated. He walked away and you continued to meet his need day by day. That, in itself, was a witness and caused the Philistine to comment, “We saw clearly that the Lord was with you.” May we show forth that same testimony. In Jesus’ name, Amen. For next week: Read Chapter 27 Every time I read this account it saddens me. The deception, the heartbreak, the consequences for the behavior of these adults must have been overwhelming once put into motion. I would like for you to take each person (Isaac, Rebekah, Esau and Jacob) and write a small entry on what that person did (if anything) deceptive and what consequence that deception reaped.
2 Comments 6-21-10, Chapter 25, the Death of Abraham 06/20/2010
As I begin to read this chapter, I guess I’m a little surprised to be reminded that after Abraham’s beloved wife, Sarah, passed away he marries again, at least Chapter 25, verse 1 says Abraham took another wife. Later in scripture Keturah is called Abraham’s concubine (verse 6 – were there other concubines?) and then look up I Chronicles 1:32, once again Keturah is called a concubine. There is a reminder in my commentary that these marital irregularities are recorded but not condoned by God. Keturah was a “lesser” wife and evidently did not have the full privileges of a wife in the home. Now let’s think about this. If Sarah is dead, can’t Abraham just remarry? Why take a concubine? For this I have no answer. And he didn’t just marry; he had a lot of kids. Now if you recall, Abraham was approximately 100 years old when Isaac was born and now, in the first four verses of this chapter, take a look at the names and number of descendents he is continuing to father. And more astounding is not the note that he leaves everything to Isaac, but that he gave gifts to the sons of his concubines, but he sent them away from Isaac to another land. You know what this reminds me of? Joseph and that Technicolor coat made for him by his father while twelve other brothers looked on. Now I am aware that Isaac is the heir, but I’m still trying to understand why all the overt actions that places Isaac on a pedestal in the presence of the other sons? However, at the end of Abraham’s life, who comes back to help Isaac bury their father? Ishmael. After being sent away with his mother years ago, Ishmael pays his respect to his father. Although scripture doesn’t say it, I’d like to think Abraham kept tabs on this boy just as the comment is written in scripture that he gave gifts to the other sons born to him. Abraham lives to be 175 years old and he is buried with his wife, Sarah, in the cave of Machpelah near Mamre. Scripture at this point in Chapter 25 lists all the sons of Ishmael. Ishmael lived 137 years and had twelve sons that fulfill scripture as told to his father, “He will be the father of twelve rulers and I will make him into a great nation.” (Chapter 17:20) Ishmael was buried or “gathered” to his people near the border of Egypt. Recall his mother, Hagar, returned to Egypt when she was set off on her own with Ishmael after the birth of Isaac. Hagar was told by God when she was pregnant with Ishmael, “He will be a wild donkey of a man; his hand will be against everyone and everyone’s hand against him, and he will live in hostility toward all his brothers.” At the conclusion of these verses upon Ishmael’s death scripture reads, “And they lived in hostility toward all their brothers.” Scripture will be fulfilled, my friends. Then we are introduced in scripture to the two sons of Isaac, Jacob and Esau. Evidently, Rebekah was barren approximately twenty years and Isaac prayed for God to open her womb. That prayer God granted because Rebekah became pregnant with twins. The twins were recorded as “jostling” within her and she questions God what is going on with these babies. And the Lord gives her a message concerning their future. “Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you will be separated; one people will be stronger than the other, and the older will serve the younger.” Now, to my knowledge, Rebekah doesn’t repeat what she has been told. Wonder why? The firstborn would inherit a double portion of his father’s possessions, become the head of the family or tribe, and in this particular case become an ancestor of the coming Messiah. Quite a birthright, wouldn’t you think? Upon their birth, Esau was the firstborn son, the hairy one and came out appearing red while Jacob was second and was holding onto Esau’s heel. I read somewhere that Jacob means “heel grabber”. However, Esau was a man’s man, an outdoorsman and quite the skilled hunter. Jacob was more of the stay at home, mild mannered type and that struck a soft chord with Rebekah, while Isaac loved Esau. Those parental feelings will prove noteworthy as the story of these boys unfolds. We end our study with a pivotal incident that occurs between Esau and Jacob. Seems like a simple little story, but this narrative has far-reaching consequences. Esau returns from hunting and is starved. Jacob is cooking some red stew and Esau wants it now. Jacob agrees to give it to him, but for a price….Esau’s birthright. Esau thinks about the offer for maybe five seconds and says what good is the birthright if he dies from hunger, so he agrees. The birthright is now in Jacob’s possession. Okay, let’s back up. First, if these were my kids and I know what the meaning of a birthright entitles the older child, I’d almost step in and say, “This is ridiculous give your brother his birthright back. He hunts and you cook the results. That doesn’t entitle you to receive payment for your part of the meal!” But I wasn’t there and I don’t know exactly what happened, but I do know what occurred in the womb was being played out in Rebekah’s kitchen that day. The birthright was not to be used carelessly as a pawn on a chess board. Jacob valued the birthright and it appears Esau did not, at least his actions suggest as much. Did Jacob truly understand the significance of having a place in the godly heritage or did he want the double portion of his father’s possessions knowing he wasn’t the rugged, go-getter type? Did Esau really despise his birthright or did he assume he’d get it back in the end regardless of this sudden decision based on hunger? Whatever transpired in the kitchen that day began years of bitterness between Esau’s descendents, the Edomites and Jacob’s descendents, the Israelites with their final destiny recorded in the book of Obadiah. Thank you, Lord, for another great chapter of study from the book of Genesis. We continually learn valuable lessons provided by men and women of long ago and how you expect us to conduct our behavior. Father, help us to be good role models in our marriages. Continue to aid us in parenting our children overseeing their actions with one another. May they grow to love and respect one another as you have loved us. And may we always give you honor and glory for everything we are and everything we have. In Jesus’ name, Amen. For next week: Please read Chapter 26 and ponder the following questions: 1. Isaac repeats a few of his father's mistakes. What specifically does he do that reminds you of Abraham's previous behavior? 2. As you read the events surrounding the digging of wells, Isaac is continually being asked to move because he finds water and Abimelech's people aren't as fortunate. The Philistines and the herdsmen of Gerar quarreled over the water supply which apparently was abundant for Isaac and company, but not for them. What correlation can you make with this issue as it relates to our spiritual lives? 3. Verses 34 and 35 give a little insight into the man Esau is becoming. As you read the last verse of this chapter what do you surmise about this situation? Now that Sarah is dead, Abraham must feel a heavier burden to find the appropriate spouse for Isaac. Not that he’s leaving God out of the picture, but a man feels more comfortable if the mother of the child is incorporated into the decision, wouldn’t you think? Anyway, Abraham knows this decision needs to be made and he’s not getting any younger. I was intrigued by the servant putting his hand under Abraham’s thigh. Evidently, placing the hand under the thigh signified the fact that children come from the “thigh” or “loins” of their father. This was a type of last will and testament given by Abraham to his servant, believed to be Eliezer of Damascus. Under no condition was Eliezer to find a wife of the Canaanites, but a woman from Abraham’s relatives in his home country. Another interesting fact was Abraham did not want Isaac to accompany Eliezer on this journey. I can only speculate why. Maybe Isaac would get in the way of the decision? Would Isaac possibly see another woman and be sidetracked? If I remember correctly, Abraham left the country of his relatives because they were caught up in idol worship and the making of idols. Did this fact have something to do with Abraham’s decision for Isaac to stay home? Whatever the reason, Eliezer went on the mission and Isaac stayed behind. What a servant Eliezer must have been! Abraham trusted this man with a life altering decision for his only son! But Abraham had been told by God that the servant would be directed by an angel to discern the correct choice for Isaac. The only release from the mission at hand is if the woman refused to return with Eliezer. So off he goes accompanied by ten camels and lots of goodies for the bride to be once she is found. After much prayer, Eliezer takes the camels to a well and waits for the women of the city to come and out and draw water. Eliezer asks God to send a woman that will draw water not only for him, but for the camels as well. Out comes Rebekah and she fulfills the request made before the Lord. She draws water for Eliezer and his camels…all ten of them. According to my commentary, ten camels after a long desert walk could empty four barrels of water…that’s a lot of drawing water from the well. If I am correct with my calculating, Rebekah is Abraham’s great niece. She is Abraham’s brother, Nahor’s granddaughter. As you have read in this chapter, the gifts are given to the family after full disclosure is made to Rebekah’s brother, Laban and to her father, Bethuel. The next morning Rebekah leaves with Eliezer to return to Abraham and Isaac. I enjoy reading the story of Isaac being in the fields when Rebekah arrived with Eliezer. In verses 63 and 64 it reads like a scene from a love story. Isaac looks up and then Rebekah looks up….see immediately inquires who he is and when told the man is Isaac, she covers her face. Isaac takes her to be his wife and scripture says, “He loved her; and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.” Beautifully written, don’t you think? Immediate love because it’s of God. Rebekah becomes Isaac’s wife and comforts the sorrow of his mother’s death. Just as our spouses comfort us in the loss of our loved ones, their spirits have united as one. I also want to note the faithfulness of Eliezer. His prayer life is amazing. He doesn’t know who he’s looking for, but he is aware of the gravity of the situation. He is responsible for finding the needle in the haystack for Isaac as requested by his master, Abraham. But through his prayer life we find God has equipped Eliezer with a metal detector for that needle. Rebekah was drawn to Eliezer and those camels and to do the will of her Lord. One last note...unlike other patriarchs mentioned in the Bible, Isaac had no other wife besides Rebekah! Father, once again thank you for this lesson which deals with our faithfulness as servants to do the work of our Lord. As Abraham trusted Eliezer with a significant task, so you have given us the crucial task of bringing the lost to you. Enable us to serve others regardless of how many buckets of water need to be drawn to get the job done. Open our eyes to the possibility that souls are thirsty and in need of living water. Next week’s assignment: Please read Chapter 25 Three major events take place in this chapter; 1. The death of Abraham; any one detail jump off the page for you? 2. Ishmael’s sons are listed. What statement made long ago continues to be mentioned? 3. Jacob and Esau, in 15 verses of scripture the story of these brothers unfold. Could anything have been done differently in parenting these young men when clearly before they were born the Lord had already given a prophetic word concerning them?
After leaving Beersheba, Abraham and Sarah settled in Hebron in the land of Canaan. At 127 years of age, scripture records the death of Sarah. We are not given a lot of details surrounding Sarah’s death, but we are told that Abraham mourned and wept over her and once he rose from her side he proceeded to find a burial site. The tender moments shared between Sarah and Abraham while death hovered near is not recorded. But recently Gary and I have been privileged to share beautiful visits with some of our senior adults as they have had to say farewell to their spouses. Two wonderful Christian gentlemen shared sitting by their wives’ bedsides and carrying on conversations although the wives were probably not able to comprehend what was being spoken. In both instances, we felt these were precious times shared between these couples, married for many years, before the physical body was taken away. Reading now about Abraham, I understand a bit more clearly what he might have been going through as he mentally began processing Sarah’s physical absence. Memories flooding his mind, he would no longer hear her voice throughout the camp. No longer would she be possibly teasing her husband and son about washing their dirty feet before entering the tent. There would no longer be Sarah. Addressing the subject of grief over the death of a loved one, Rick Warren has written a very famous book entitled, “The Purpose Driven Life.” The book is amazing and I’ve read it several times. There are two particular chapters in this book that I have incorporated into a study I led on “Grief, it’s not all about Death.” I’d like to pen a few of those thoughts for your consideration. First, life here on this earth isn’t all there is. I’m sure Abraham knew that God had an eternal plan even though he didn’t have a copy of God’s Holy Bible. God has much bigger plans for us than what this earthly body can experience. God promises, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. In my Father’s House are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.” John 14: 1-3 Do you believe God? Then you must believe in his promises, my friend! This old earthly body is just a temporary housing facility for your spirit! “Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world.” Matthew 25:34. “Friends, this world is not your home, so don’t make yourselves cozy in it. Don’t indulge your ego at the expense of your soul.” I Peter 2:11 (The Message) There are many stages individuals encounter when dealing with the death of a loved one. But we, as Christians, need to realize death is not to be feared because Christ is IN the presence of death. Remember as Christ hung on the cross and the thief asked to be remembered? Jesus answered, “I tell you the truth, today you will be with me in paradise.” Luke 23:43 By the time Abraham rose from beside Sarah’s bed, Sarah was rejoicing in heaven with her Lord! What a glorious day that will be, friends! The hardest part of death is loved ones left behind. I comment all the time that heaven grows sweeter and sweeter each year. There are so many wonderful Christian friends and loved ones who have already joined the heavenly chorus. The day God calls me home will be amazing for me, but those left behind might not feel the same way. We miss the physical presence of those who have departed. But we must go on. Abraham rose, following Sarah’s death, and found a burial site for Sarah. Not wanting to be “given” a plot, Abraham bought the cave of Machpelah in Hebron. Since Abraham and Sarah had been on a pilgrimage, they did not own land. The soil upon which the cave of Machpelah stood is located in the land of Canaan! Can you imagine? The Promised Land, given by covenant promise to Abraham has now become the resting place of Abraham’s sweet Sarah. Don’t you just love the stories written by Almighty God? This particular cave will be the burial site for Abraham, Isaac, Rebekah, Jacob and Leah. In conclusion, Abraham is once again demonstrating his human qualities and leadership abilities through his grief and determination to carry on with God’s plan for his life regardless of current situations. I’m sure Sarah’s death was extremely difficult for him, but he didn’t let grief overshadow the job God had for him to do. Lord, thank you for your constant presence. Scripture reassures us in Psalms 139 that all our days are ordained by you before one of them comes into being, therefore we know nothing that happens to us is a surprise to you. Hold us, comfort us, give us peace and fill us with hope. Reassure us that time spent on earth is momentary; eternity is forevermore. “Surely God would not have created such a being as man to exist only for a day! No, no, man was made for immortality.” President Abraham Lincoln. Next week: Please read chapter 24 Prearranged marriage...those are loaded words. What do you think about the direction Abraham took to find a mate for his son, Isaac? What was the reason for returning to his homeland to find a wife when God had brought him out of that land? What do you think about the method used by the servant to find the one ordained of God? Would you send your daughter off with individuals you did not know to be married to a young man you hadn't met? | AuthorCome along and join the Bucket List Bible Study! Open to all who enjoy studying God's Word. ArchivesFebruary 2012 Categories |
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